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Dr. Heather E. Eves's avatar

May the moving fairies smile upon all of you. Love that the children are helping. Having cleared through and removed (BuyNothinged, Recycled, Goodwilled, or Landfilled) an estimated 75% of what we had in our home of 27 years after my husband died I can 100% agree with Guru Tom. Also "The Gentle Art of Swedish Deathcleaning" was a hoot on audiobook and so very helpful and might be a listen even after you get it all to the townhouse? I had ZERO idea the weight of all that sat in my attic for most of those 27 years until a crew of six took a measly three hours to empty it out and haul it all, minus the few boxes of Christmas ornaments which was the only things I kept, away. Godspeed. You are doing great, as always.

Amy Byrnes's avatar

Heather, first: I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what an undertaking it must have been to pull up stakes after 27 years. I'm amazed/impressed/jealous that you were able to let go of most of it. It's such a reminder to me that as much as I love my stuff — and I love my stuff — it's just stuff. In the end, I'm not taking any of it with me. Am so grateful for your lovely note and gentle reminder and to know you're still out there rooting me on. Please know I'm doing the same for you. xo

Marcia Francois's avatar

LOL I love Unhinged Moving Amy. I laughed in so many places.

Okay, on your other newsletter, I wish I lived close to you and could come help you because my speciality is decluttering and organising. My husband says, "if you stand still long enough, you'll get decluttered in this house" . I agree with Tom of the good vibes that it's easier to get rid of stuff now rather than later.

I agree with you - 100% do not recommend a move but it's still exciting. New spaces to organise!

Sending you lots of energy, clarity of mind and so many good vibes (and KIND people). xxx

Amy Byrnes's avatar

LOL: "Unhinged Moving Amy." Girl, I also wish you lived nearby because I could have used that kind of help having no time to do any decluttering before packing. But the good news is that my daughter, who's always happy to provide ruthless feedback, reported I am much calmer this time than the last move four years ago. I am just trying to go with the flow. Maybe it's all those good vibes your sending my way? Thanks for being one of those KIND people. xo

Venetia's avatar

Moving is a process, not unlike grief, there is no way to go around it, you have to go through it. (Hence why it is probably considered one of life’s most stressful experiences.) I’m glad your kiddos are there to help. Good luck and stay strong 💪🏽 📦📦📦🚛

Amy Byrnes's avatar

So true: there is absolutely no way around moving. I mean, maybe if you were really rich? All I know is that right now, I am moving through rooms like a shark and putting things in boxes. Thank god for my kids or I'd be in big trouble. Thanks for the virtual hug. xo

TaraES's avatar

Best of luck as you get through the move. I wish I was around next weekend! I’d come help (hollow words, I know :(). I’m glad your kids are helping! If you don’t love it, toss it. Hugs as you go through this.

Amy Byrnes's avatar

Thank you, girly! xo

Arpee64's avatar

I bet you’ll have great neighbors!!

Amy Byrnes's avatar

Gah. The best.

Kathleen's avatar

Moving sounds so daunting! I have no doubt that with your superpower and your helpers, you’ll make it happen. Hang in there and please be careful lifting things.

Amy Byrnes's avatar

I cannot explain the mental/physical/emotional labor tied up in moving and will be so grateful to be on the other side of it! xo

Msocean's avatar

Moving is a painful way to throw out stuff. A torture that rivals divorce and labor. When you’re a pack rack, like I am, it’s even harder. Hang in there, Amy; you are strong, resilient, smart and positive!

Msocean's avatar

Think about how amazingly accomplished you are! This is just a blip, and a good one. Change can be a good thing because we learn from the experience.

Amy Byrnes's avatar

TORTURE. Yes. But dang, those words of encouragement mean everything. xo

Jennifer Gallo Gaites's avatar

Good luck with the move!

Amy Byrnes's avatar

😘😘😘